If you want to be happier and more bosslike, you should stop making excuses for yourself not to do things. Instead work toward making your life better and creating a situation where you can be a boss.
“I don’t have time, I’m way too busy!”

Sure, you might be busy. Heck, you might even be extremely busy, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t make time to relax and chill out! We get so wrapped up in things we have to get done that the tasks become so glorified to the point where it imposes on other parts of our lives. Most of the time, it doesn’t have to affect everything about your life.
“I can’t afford it, it’s too expensive!”

When this excuse is given for not doing something awesome you will cherish for the rest of your life (i.e. a bosslike trip to a beautiful island), it often simply means your priorities are whack. If you’re buying lunch every day and dropping piles of cash for coffee at Starbucks on a regular basis, maybe you’re doing it wrong? Maybe you could afford an incredible vacation, if you saved some of the money you spend without any real benefit? It’s just something to think about as you evolve to become more of a boss.
“I can’t take time off.”

Do you really have to work every single day? Most likely not. Take time off completely (no e-mail, no cell phone, etc.) for a period of time to recharge. Whether it’s a weekend trip or a three week trip to that bosslike island we mentioned earlier, you’ll be happy you took a chance to chill out. Your overall productivity will increase due to this as well.
“I can’t do it, because I don’t know how.”

Then learn how! Just because you’re not able to do something right now doesn’t mean you’ll never be able to do it. You learned to walk and talk as a young child, right? Taking the leap to learn something new, whether it be a sport or something else, can be a very liberating experience. Learning something you thought was impossible might even change your outlook on life completely!
“I’ll do it later.”

You probably won’t, so just do it now. Just because you have things to get done, doesn’t mean you should always be neglecting and postponing the things you truly want to be doing. Stop putting off your dreams and accomplish something bosslike today!
If any of these excuses apply to you, stop making them. Be bosslike instead!